WHEN NOT TO GIVE IN!
J. Holman
(Investigator 77, 2001 March)
Winston
Churchill was an archetype of perseverance — a colossus of refusal to
surrender to the adversary. "Never give in," he would say, "never,
NEVER, NEVER, in nothing great or small, large or petty —
never give in except to convictions of honor and good sense. NEVER
yield to force, NEVER yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the
enemy!"
That
Brobdingnagian determination to overcome any and all obstacles, coupled
with his personal abilities and willingness to work, made Churchill's
life an inspiration to millions. And that same quality, PERSEVERANCE,
will make the difference between success and failure in our lives.
Life
has its bleak moments — when things seem to go wrong — when even
obedience to God's laws seems, on the surface, only to bring more
disheartening results. Long periods of time can go by with no apparent
"blessings" as we mortals tend to reckon blessings. But we need to
realise that God does not always see things as we earthlings do.
Take
the example of Joseph the elder son of Jacob and Rachel. One can hardly
say he "deserved" his troubles. In his case the envy of others was to
blame.
Joseph's
brothers could hardly tolerate his favoured position in the family —
they hated him for the beautiful coat their father had given him.
Joseph began to tell of his highly implicative dreams — that they and
their father would one day bow before him. So they got rid of him —
sold him as a slave and convinced their father that he was dead,
stealing and ruining his beautiful coat in the process.
Later,
in Egypt, Joseph was sold again — this time to the chief executioner.
Not a very nice position to be in! And all of this because he was one
with whom God was dealing.
Soon,
things got WORSE! The executioner's wife made a play for him, and he
refused her. He wisely obeyed God. And what did he get for his staunch
morality? The proverbial "woman scorned" deceitfully forced her cruel
revenge by seeing him thrown in jail. For obeying God he was thrown in
a dark dungeon with no hope of escape or release. He became a
"forgotten man".
So,
there you have it. God begins to DEAL with the man. Things go well for
a little while — and then EVERYTHING falls apart! Or so it appears.
Of
course, when we read the rest of the story, everything becomes clear.
In just a few more paragraphs, the whole situation is changed. All has
worked out beautifully. Joseph was finally recognised, was made RULER
directly in association with the chief Pharaoh of Egypt, his entire
family was reunited and brought to Egypt to be near him, and he was
jointly given the best of the nation's land. The complete story is
touching and pulchritudinous.
But
what if YOU had been Joseph? Would you have patiently endured all the
affliction, pain, discouragement and suffering, without "giving up" or
losing faith in God? The word of God says, "If you faint in the day of
adversity, your strength is small" (Proverbs 24:10, Amplified Bible).
You
wouldn't have been able to see the end from the beginning any more
perfectly than Joseph could. The neat and encouraging paragraphs would
not yet have been written. You would simply have been robbed of your
favourite clothes and sold as a SLAVE into the worst possible
situation. You would not speak or understand the language of the man
you worked for. His wife would have been making seductive passes at
YOU. And YOU — if you had obeyed God — would have found yourself thrown
in the darkest of jails and forgotten.
You
would most likely rue the day you got that beautiful garment from your
father — and you might even wish you had never had those special
dreams. You would certainly wish you had kept quiet about them. But
there you would be. In a horrible jail. In a foreign country. Separated
from everything and everyone you knew and loved. A prisoner, not
guilty, but punished.
This
kind of situation is far from being an isolated case. God always deals
with people as He knows is best. In everything He wants his people to
develop faith in the fact that He is in CONTROL whether or not things
may "look good" for the moment. The golden sky comes at the END of the
storm — the "silver lining" in clouds is not apparent at first. And
only through our patiently enduring and USING the experiences that come
our way do we develop ENDURING FAITH in God.
Trials
must come, though in contrast to Joseph we are often responsible for
the troubles that come our way. We create our problems through our own
shortcomings, or we force God to correct us when we disobey His laws or
principles, even when we aren't aware of what mistake we may have been
making until God makes it clear to us in His unmistakable ways. But in
either case, to let God do His incredible work in our lives we have to
ENDURE chastisement, knowing that God punishes us for our eternal
welfare and good, as a loving father spanks his children (Hebrews
12:5-11).
When
your life looks "boxed in", hopeless — when nothing seems to work out
right — then pause and consider that your Creator LOVES you and is
deeply concerned for you and aware of your every situation. Remember
always that these trials and tests are really for your own good (Romans
8:28-29).
This
is the typical time "when NOT to give in"! When you are troubled SEEK
God. Draw close to Him in prayer. Ask God to help you see if YOU are
doing something wrong — something He forbids — and if you are, CHANGE!
Or if you are NOT doing something you are positively commanded to do,
CHANGE!
Then
after correcting whatever you came to see was wrong (or if you could
clearly see that no sin was involved), PATIENTLY ENDURE the affliction,
committing the outcome into the hands of God while you continue to DO
ALL YOUR DUTY. Let God solve your problem and deliver you from it, in
His own right time, knowing he would not allow it in the first place
unless it were for your good and the good of others.
God
is here to help, to intercede for, to liberate those who are cast down
— NOT to destroy them. He may try our mettle — but He'll bless us,
afterwards, for our endurance. We know or have seen how He helped
others, and not being a respecter of persons (Acts 10:34) He will
certainly help you! So ENDURE with God's help. Let God help you build
your character — so He can bless you in due time. Don't EVER give up.
Get "quit" out of your vocabulary, for you CANNOT see tomorrow from
today's utterly inadequate, terribly limited HUMAN viewpoint!
When you are depressed, or "down in the dumps", because of some trial, then pray as David did:
"But
O my soul, don't be discouraged. Don't be upset. Expect God to act! For
I know that I shall again have plenty of reason to praise Him for all
that He will do. He is my help! He is MY GOD!" (Psalm 42:11, The Living
Bible)
This is the right time when not to give in.
Josef Holman,
NSW